The Benefits of Writing Letters to Your Children

Mar 12

The Benefits of Writing Letters to Your Children

Did you ever write a letter for your child? In this present time of texting and short messaging on FaceBook and Twitter are no substitute for a well thought and well written letter. When you as a parent write a letter to your son or daughter, will leave them with something they can read over and over throughout their lives.. You should consider writing to each of your children at least once a year, perhaps on their birthdays or around the holidays. This type of tradition is a tangible expression of your love and pride, as well as the ongoing hopes and dreams you have for your children’s future.

Children need to be told often how much you love them and appreciate them. When you write a letter and make it just for them, it will be even more special. Make sure that you focus only on positive aspects of their life. If they struggle, give them encouragement.

If you have not written a letter in a while, it might be more difficult than you think. So here are some great points you can consider as you write this letter.

Here are seven specific words to include when you write a letter to a child. You do not need to use them all at the same time.

1. “Love”

Of course you want to tell your child how you feel! Even if you tell them”I love you” every day, the message is conveyed differently when the words are shared in writing. You might say something like this:

  • It’s difficult for me to put to words much I love you!
  • Being your mom/dad has been one of the greatest gifts in my life.
  • There’s nothing that could ever change how I feel about you, because I love you more than you can understand right now.

2. “Notice”

When writing a letter to your child, share what you’ve noticed recently about him or her. How has she grown? Do you see any positive characteristics emerging within him? You might say something like this:

  • The generosity you  have for your sister always makes me smile.
  • I noticed how kind you are toward your friends and I am very happy to see that you are so nice.
  • I know that it has been difficult recently, but I am so impressed how you handled this conflict.

3. “Enjoy”

Describe what you enjoy doing together. This will mean a lot to your child, and it will help put the letter into context when he or she reads it again in the years to come. You might say something like this:

  • I really enjoy when we are playing games together.
  • It is so wonderful when we cook together. I get everithing done much faster becasue of your help.
  • When we read together I love listening to your voice and how much your reading improved.

4. “Proud”

Be specific when you describe what makes you proud. This is something we all long to hear, and the words will be like nourishment to your child when he or she re-reads the letter years from now. You might say something like this:

  • I am so proud of you and how you handle yourself in all kids of situations.
  • You have done so well in school this year, I could not be more proud.
  • I am so proud of you and that you have been working so hard to further develop your athletic talents.

5. “Cherish”

In each letter to your child, share a few memories that mean a lot to you personally. Your stories will communicate truth in a way that’s more memorable to your child than any singular compliment. Describe something that happened this year.

  • Memories of a shared vacation
  • An observation you’ll never forget
  • The memory of a time when you realized your child had grown in some way

6. “Hope”

In addition, take the time to share your highest hopes in your letter. You might say something like this:

  • I hope that you will always be careful and listen to your feelings when you make new friends.
  • I hope that you realize that your ability to play piano is a beautiful gift and that you can use it to make others happy.
  • I truly hope that you will be able to realize all your hopes as you go through life in the years to come

7. “Believe”

This is an opportunity to share your confidence in your child, as well as the beliefs that continue to motivate you. For example, describe something personal.

  • Your own convictions about his or her future.
  • A scripture verse that speaks to this time in his or her life.
  • A quotation that has touched you personally
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